When the going gets tough, the tough get going

Have you ever hit the end of your rope? I mean completely, like you want to hit the reset button and start again. This is not a statement directed to Barrel horses, but in general. I’ve had friends quit their jobs and start new careers after very established positions. 

There is well known saying in rodeo. “When the going gets tough, the tough get going”. 

And basically what this means, is everyone has the dreaded slump, it’s just a matter of how you handle it. Eventually things turn around, and get pointed in the desired direction. Now, generally before you make this 180 on your direction, it seems like there is no end in sight on the slump. Your bank account generally goes from rock star status, to somewhere near a hobo collecting for playing a home made guitar. 

The first thing to remember when your making your guitar is, your NOT AL0NE. Seriously, I have seen and watched world champions make the same struggles. Why did they become world champions? Because they did not quit. They blissfully made their guitar, busted their butts, and did not quit trying. Once they got their directions changed, they rode that momentum straight to the finish line. 

My best advice comes from my mom, about the time your ready to quit, is the time to keep going. 

Honestly, this statement can not be more true when it comes to A- barrel horses and B- rodeo. 

When starting colts and hauling them, they take you through an emotionally rollercoaster. It’s generally multiple humbling experiences, plus some glimmers of hope. I have had some colts just want to please and work for you. They may not be the fastest, or best athlete, but they try every time. Those horses are worth their weight in gold. Honestly, what more could you ask for in a horse, but to try what you are asking of him. 

Then I’ve had the other spectrum, a fast, arrogant, hard to train prospect. These colts have natural ability, and don’t have an open mind. It’s a constant battle to get minimal results. I had one of these, who turned out to be one of the best horses I have ever rode. It’s something you must push through in order to reach that talent, and come to a mutual understanding of the plan. “To run around three barrels as fast as possible”. 

I’ve actually had horrible dry slumps in rodeo. And about the time I thought I should throw in the town because my bank account was looking hobo ish, is the time things turn around. I had gone for 6 months without making 1 cheque, and finished the season #5 in Canada. You just never know until it’s over. So keep those little feet moving. 

“Don’t look back, your not going that direction.”